6 TIPS FOR BETTER CHEMISTRY WITH YOUR NON-DISABLED PARTNER
In any relation, chemistry is the parameter that determines the level of bonding between two people. Whatever the relationship, chemistry determines its motion and durability. And in the case of your relationship with your spouse, chemistry is much more important than the rest because you have to spend your daily life with that person, the most personal time in life. And so, the chemistry of that relationship needs to be very deep, and its foundation needs to be strong enough. In that case, if you and your partner’s visual status is different, you may get a better outcome if you take care of a few things. We will discuss the issues that need to be looked at to reconcile the two different lifestyles into a happy and healthy couple.
What is Chemistry about?
Chemistry is nothing abstract or dependent upon the emotions and anxiousness you have for your partner. Some people get super excited and too emotional with their partner during the first few months or years. Still, later they find it hard to continue the relationship with that person, which is a clear notion of not having healthy chemistry throughout the entire relationship. We wouldn’t want this situation to arise at all! We want you to have a happy and prosperous life and sweeter chemistry with your partner. Let’s have a look what are the prime requirements to build sweeter and deeper chemistry between you and your partner:
● Trust is the key feature of a relationship. You and your partner should trust each other so much, and it can be built up from the honesty you both have towards the relationship.
● Understanding thoughts and lifestyle is the base of the chemistry between you and your partner.
● Balance of dependence plays a crucial role in building good chemistry. If one’s dependence becomes a burden to another, there can’t be healthy chemistry between those two people.
● Mental and physical comfort and satisfaction from the relationship is also vital factor.
● The financial security of both you and your partner is also an essential part of the relationship and the chemistry between you two.
The last two things we may often consider secondary, which is not at all accurate. It is necessary to balance the relationship and provide equal importance to each other; you can further explore the sweetness and depth of chemistry between you and your partner.
Problems that may arise
Naturally, it is expected that the person you have chosen as your spouse or the person you are in a partnership with, you two have enough understanding of your personal and social positions and know each other well enough. The person is not a victim of traditional misconceptions. That is why you have decided to spend your life together. However, due to the various events going on side by side and the hesitations, some unwanted issues often arise.
● Social gossip & prejudices regarding the mental and physical capability of VIs and repetitive comments from people about these things may hamper your partner’s cognitive strength and confidence and the level of understanding between you two.
● Hesitations to speak about dissatisfaction or any other problem, even with the intention of not hurting the other person, may lead to a fatal gap between the two people.
● Lack of proper adjustment, even after having solely honest intentions towards the relationship, may increase the density of chemistry between you and your partner.
Tips to hackle the problems: Dense the chemistry more & more
Now, you know the keynotes and issues you need to address to better your partner’s chemistry. You just need to sort and plan the tasks you need to do. Here are a few tips regarding that:
● Spend quality time with your partner! This cannot be stressed enough! Even if you both have to live a busy, scheduled life. A quality period of a day must be scheduled solely for you two.
● Share thoughts and points of view while spending a good quality time. Share your background, life events, feelings towards other people and other social things, even the tiniest stories of your life, how you see the world from your vision, and know about your partner.
● Don’t hesitate to speak out about anything you feel necessary to say. There lies a question of modesty of presentation in an obvious. But, not speaking out is never a solution, but rather a problem while building proper chemistry.
● Be supportive of each other even in the worst situation to hold the chemistry with more strength.
● Explore your mental and physical capabilities to wipe out the effectiveness of social prejudices from the relationship and savor the maximum psychological and physical satisfaction you both can grasp.
● Confirm a quality income to lead a healthy life together and put out all the tensions regarding financial security.
Read more: Tips for dating a person with disability
Conclusion
People sometimes get confused between Excitement and Attachment, Emotion and Chemistry. Here we have tried to give you some idea about what chemistry is and what it depends on, what kind of problems might arise and how to spend time with your partner to overcome those problems and create better chemistry between you. However, special needs must take the help of an expert. We wish you and your partner a long life together with deep chemistry.